Kindness Bags

I will be the first to admit that I get a little carried away when it comes to Christmas time. The music, the magic, the festiveness, I love it all. Each weekend is packed with some sort of holiday activity. However, it’s really important to us as parents that the Christmas season isn’t all about “me me me” for our kids.

We limit our gift giving to them to Want, Need, Wear, Read – and one surprise goodie from Mom and Dad.

We ask our friends to bring a toy donation to our annual Santa party and take part in our church’s Angel Tree.

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Kindness Elves

In addition, we do the Kindness Elves. They are similar to the Elf on the Shelf however, our Elves recommend ways to spread kindness. Last year, our Kindness Elves suggested that we do something for homeless people. It was one of my favorite projects to do with our Big Nugget. San Diego County has a lot of homeless and it seems like there is someone in need at every light or every parking lot.

Kindness Bags

We went to Target’s Dollar Spot and travel section to get some essential items for our kindness bags that a homeless person could use. We’ve also gone to the Dollar Store and have found some deals on Amazon that you could order and have the next day. Set a budget per bag and fill them up based on that. Sure, we could easily roll the window down and hand them some money, and occasionally I do but these kindness bags provide something practical. It also provides an element of compassion that many on the street don’t get. I want my girls to see all people as human, worthy of empathy.

Kindness Bag goodies

Ideas of things include in Kindness Bags

  • Wet wipes
  • Toothbrush
  • Small bottle of water
  • Granola bars
  • Socks
  • Mittens (even in San Diego it gets chilly at night)
  • Kleenex,
  • Chapstick
  • Sunscreen
  • Bandaids
Kindness bag assembly

We use gallon zip lock bags and fill them with small items that a homeless person might need. Even as we were assembling them, Big Nugget wanted a pair of gloves for herself and to eat a granola bar. It was a great teaching moment and allowed me to explain, again, that other people needed these items more than she did in that moment.

Assembled Kindness Bags

We put the kindness bags into my car and keep them until we see someone on the street corner or stoplight. It’s an easy way to provide some practical help. Most of all, we are teaching her compassion for others and that giving is just as fun as receiving. That this Christmas season isn’t about just Santa lists and Christmas lights but spreading hope and love through acts of kindness.

One of my favorite Christmas traditions is having the Kindness Elves come and visit my kids. It’s similar to Elf on the Shelf and recommends activities for them to give back rather than just receive. This random act of kindness is for the homeless, easy DIY care bags that any toddler, preschooler or older school age kid can help assemble and teaches compassion and empathy.

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